Boundaries are ways to set up clear expectations and responsibilities, they help us define what is appropriate in relationships. I would like to share with you how to create boundaries and live authentically.
How to Create Boundaries and Live Authentically:
Here are 3 common boundaries
- Physical
- Emotional
- Time
Let’s put these into action and dive a little deeper into each one to clarify what exactly they mean…
1.Physical:
This is anything that involves your physical body
- physical needs
- touch
- personal space
Examples:
- “Don’t take things off of my desk without my permission.”
- “I feel comfortable shaking your hand instead of giving you a hug.”
- “I need to step away from my desk to eat my lunch.”
2.Emotional:
Being able to express and nurturing your feelings and emotions
- what you share with others
- expressing your feelings
- speaking up if you do not want to talk about something
- alone time
- sense of self
- energy level
Examples:
- Limiting your availability to someone who wants to just complain
- “I need you to share bath time responsibilities with our kids so we both can enjoy free time.”
- “I am not able to attend your party, thank you for thinking of me!”
- “I do not want to talk about my weight/love life/etc.”
3.Time:
Boundaries with time are about understanding your priorities and not overcommitting.
Examples:
- “We will only be able to stay for an hour.”
- “I am unable to volunteer for that event.”
- “I will only respond to work emails during the hours of 8-5 pm.”
So… how do you feel about boundaries now? Are you ready to give them a try? Do you need some help? I would love to help you through this process- try out a free coaching session with me and we can talk about how to start setting boundaries in your life!
****My posts are not to be taken as medical advice. Anything I talk about regarding fitness and nutrition, or any other lifestyle changes comes from my own personal experience or my individual client’s experiences, please consult with your personal medical provider or professional for your specific needs.